Iowa Alternative Sex Ads - BDSM, Trans & Swingers

Browse Iowa alternative sex ads to meet kinky locals looking for BDSM, domination & fetish, transgender sex, or swingers & threesomes hookups near you. It's free to search these alternative classifieds, or post your own ad!

Home / Alternative Sex Ads /

Show Ads In: Ames | Des Moines | Dubuque | Cedar Rapids | Iowa City | Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA | Quad Cities, IA/IL | Sioux City | Waterloo / Cedar Falls

November 22nd, 2025

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Whitaker, a submissive male from Des Moines, Iowa looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and force me into submission. I crave the feeling of being dominated and controlled by a powerful woman who knows how to put me in my place. Some of my favorite submissive ...

Raunchy Shemale Seeking Local Man for Wild Fun I love to get down and dirty with a man who can handle a shemale like me. When it comes to sex, I'm open to trying anything and everything. I enjoy giving blowjobs, getting fucked hard in my tight ass, and riding a throbbing cock until we both explode in intense orgasms. If you're into kinky play,...

Kinky Fetish Seeker in Des Moines My name is Torey and I'm a kinky girl from Des Moines, Iowa. I love exploring all sorts of fetishes and kinks that make me feel alive and excited. From BDSM to roleplay, I'm always up for trying something new and adventurous. I enjoy being a Dominatrix, taking control and giving out whippings to ...

Passion Seekers in Dubuque Hello there, I'm Katya from Dubuque, Iowa. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly swingers looking to spice up our already hot sex life. We believe that life is too short not to explore all the pleasures it has to offer. You can find us on FreeSexAds.com Swingers Lifestyl...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Roleplay and Humiliation I'm Whit, a submissive male from Cedar Rapids, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission. I crave being dominated and taught how to properly please a Mistress. You can find me on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username whitce39882. I enjoy kinks suc...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun Hey there, my name is Gino and I'm a submissive male from Sioux City, Iowa looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found in the FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username ginos12191. I have always had a...

Kinky Fetish Fun with Theresa in Quad Cities I love exploring all kinds of fetishes and kinks. From BDSM to domination and submission, I enjoy it all. My name is Theresa, and I'm always looking for new experiences to spice things up. Whippings, roleplay, spankings - you name it, I'm into it! But I also have some kinks that I'd love to explo...

Join Cherey for a Sensual Adventure in Dubuque Hello there! I'm Cherey, a female swinger from Dubuque, Iowa. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore kinks and fetishes. We enjoy meeting new people who share our adventurous spirit and are looking to spice things up in the bedroom. You can find us in the swing...

Explore Kinks and Fetishes with Selina from Omaha/Council Bluffs, IA Hey there! I'm Selina, a female swinger from the Omaha/Council Bluffs area. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned pro, we're always up for some naughty fun. You can find us on s...

Seeking Connection in Iowa City Hey there! I'm Evie, a transgender woman from Iowa City who loves embracing my true self and connecting with others in the LGBTQ community. I may not fit society's expectations of what a woman should look like, but I am confident and comfortable in my own skin. I enjoy exploring local coffee shop...

Kinky Desires Await with Lorelei I never thought I would find someone who shares my kinky desires and fetishes until now. My name is Lorelei, and I am a woman from Des Moines, Iowa who loves exploring all things BDSM and fetish related. From domination to submission, whippings to roleplay, I enjoy it all. But there are still some k...

Euphoric Trans Beauty Seeking Connection Hey there! I'm Nancie, a transgender woman from Des Moines, Iowa. I love embracing my true self and being part of the LGBTQ community. It's empowering to live authentically and share my journey with others. I'm looking for someone who is open-minded, kind-hearted, and ready to explore new adventu...

Looking for Love as a Proud Transgender in Ames, Iowa! Hey there! My name is Donelle and I'm a transgender person living in the lovely town of Ames, Iowa. 🌈 I wanted to put myself out there and see if I can find someone special who appreciates me for who I am. So, here's a little bit about what I look like: - I have a unique body type that embrac...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Jessee, a submissive male from Des Moines, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username jessee93891. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and ...

Local Shemale Sofia Seeking Hot Encounters for Wild Fun Are you ready to explore your wildest fantasies with a sexy shemale like me, Sofia? I'm a naughty tranny from Quad Cities, IA/IL looking for a local man who can handle all the kinky fun I have to offer. Whether you're into getting your cock sucked, pounding my tight ass, or enjoying some sloppy bl...

Spark a Connection with Gale Hey there! I'm Gale, a fun-loving transgender individual from Quad Cities, IA/IL. I may not fit society's norms, but that's what makes me unique and special. 🌈 I enjoy embracing my true self and connecting with others who appreciate authenticity. Whether it's exploring local art galleries or g...

Hot Shemale in Ames Looking for a Wild Time Are you ready to experience the ultimate pleasure with a sexy shemale? My name is Carley and I'm on the hunt for a local man who can handle all of my desires. I love getting down and dirty, exploring every inch of your body with my talented hands and mouth. I'm a top shemale who loves to dominat...

Kinky Fetish Seeker Looking for Playmates I'm Loraine, and I have a wild side that craves exploration. If you're into kinks like BDSM, domination, submission, and roleplay, then we might just be a match made in heaven. I love the thrill of whippings, the power dynamics of being a Dominatrix, and the vulnerability of being a submissive. ...

Kinky Fetish Fun in Iowa City, Iowa Hi there, I'm Elsbeth and I'm a kinky little minx from Iowa City looking for some naughty fun! I love exploring all kinds of fetishes and kinks, from BDSM to roleplay to humiliation. There's nothing that gets me going more than a good spanking or some intense domination play. But I'm always looking ...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Holly Hey there! I'm Holly from Sioux City, Iowa, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. I love indulging in foot worship 🦶and exploring all the sensations it brings. There's something so thrilling about having my feet pampered and adored. I'm a friendly and open-minded person who loves...

Explore Your Wildest Fantasies with Laverne Hey there! My name is Laverne and I am a female swinger from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned pro, we are always up for trying something new and ex...

Spark up some magic with Winnie! Hey there! I'm Winnie, a fun-loving transgender gal from Des Moines, Iowa. I may have a curvy body and a mix of different ethnicities, but what truly defines me is my vibrant personality and adventurous spirit. 🌈 I love being part of the LGBTQ community because it's where I feel accepted and f...

Sweet and Sassy Transgender Lady Seeking Love 💕 Hey there! I'm Loree, a fun-loving transgender woman who's ready to dive into the dating scene. If you're looking for someone unique, open-minded, and full of life, then you've come to the right place! Physically, I have a curvaceous body that will make your heart skip a beat. My luscious dark ha...

Kinky Fetish Fun in Cedar Falls, Iowa My name is Eden and I have a wild side that craves exploration. I love all things kinky and am always looking for new experiences to satisfy my desires. Whether it's BDSM, domination, submission, roleplay, or spankings, I'm game for it all. I enjoy being a Mistress and taking control, but I also...

Kinky Mistress Seeking Submissives for Taboo Adventures
I never knew I had such a wild side until I discovered my fetish and kink desires. My name is Erena, and I am from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I love exploring all kinds of kinky activities that make me feel alive and fulfilled. From BDSM to domination and submission, I enjoy pushing boundaries and trying n...

Passionate Swingers Looking for Playmates Hello there, I'm Andrei from Iowa City, Iowa. My husband and I are a fun-loving, open-minded couple who love to explore our kinks and fantasies with like-minded individuals. We are active members of the swinging lifestyle community and you can find us on FreeSexAds.com under the username andreiiow...

Seeking Connection and Adventure Hey there! I'm Eadie, a transgender woman from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, Iowa. I love exploring new places and meeting new people. Whether it's grabbing coffee at Aromas Coffeehouse or going for a stroll in the Heartland of America Park, I'm always up for an adventure. I enjoy being part of the...

Euphoria Awaits: Transgender Beauty Seeking Connection Hey there, I'm Melina from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa. I'm a proud transgender woman who loves embracing my true self and connecting with others in the LGBTQ community. Whether we grab a coffee at Cup of Joe or take a stroll along the Cedar Valley Nature Trail, I'm all about creating meaningful co...

Tempting Mariana from Des Moines Hey there! I'm Mariana, a friendly and open-minded gal from Des Moines with a unique fetish. I absolutely love exploring different kinks and fetishes, and my favorite one involves wearing latex clothing. There's just something so empowering and sexy about it that really gets me going! 🖤 I've a...

Unleash Your Desires with Rhonda from Des Moines! Are you ready to embark on a thrilling journey of pleasure and exploration? Look no further, for I am Rhonda, a vivacious female swinger hailing from the heartland of Des Moines, Iowa. Together with my loving husband, we are here to create unforgettable experiences that will leave you breathless. ...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Adventures I'm Lucas, a submissive male from Des Moines, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and show me the ways of submission. I crave being forced into my place and taught how to properly please a Mistress. Some of my favorite submissive kinks include bondage, spa...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with April from Dubuque Hey there! I'm April from Dubuque, Iowa, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love exploring. I won't tell you what it is just yet, but I can assure you it's something you've never experienced before. What I love about my fetish is how it allows me to tap into my deepest desires and fantas...

Passionate Swingers Seeking Playmates in Cedar Rapids Hey there, I'm Maegan from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly swingers looking to add some spice to our already hot sex life. We love exploring new fantasies, pushing boundaries, and indulging in the pleasures of the lifestyle. You can find us on F...

Kinky Fetish Fun in Quad Cities, IA/IL with Alison Are you looking for a kinky adventure in the Quad Cities area? Well, look no further because I'm Alison and I'm here to fulfill all your wildest fantasies! Whether you're into BDSM, domination, submission, roleplay, or any other fetish, I'm your girl. I love exploring new kinks and fetishes, so d...

Elegant Transgender Beauty Looking for Love Hey there, I'm Malena from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I may have a curvy body, but my heart is even bigger! I love being part of the LGBTQ community because it allows me to express my true self without any judgment. I enjoy exploring new places in town like Brucemore or the NewBo City Market, and I'm a...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Hilarie from Sioux City Hey there! I'm Hilarie and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love indulging in. I won't reveal what it is just yet, but trust me, it's something you won't be able to resist once you find out! I'm a friendly and open-minded individual who loves exploring different kinks and fetishes. I'm al...

Discover Elias: A Submissive Seeking a Dominant Woman Hey there, I'm Elias from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore - I love being tickled! The feeling of vulnerability and surrender to someone else's touch just drives me wild. I'm a submissive guy who would love to spend time with a Dominant woman who can fulfill my de...

Discover the Allure of Goldie: Unleash Your Wildest Desires! Hey there, fellow explorers of the unknown! My name is Goldie, and I'm a friendly and open-minded woman hailing from beautiful Ames, Iowa. I've always believed that life is too short to stick to the ordinary, which is why I'm here to share my unique fetish with you. Let me tell you a little secre...

Gorgeous, Passable Trans in Iowa 😍 Gorgeous Passable Trans MtF for Man in Iowa 😍 I transitioned 6 years ago at age 18. I am pretty, with long light brown hair, a nice figure and long shapely legs. I have brown puppy dog eyes and kissable lips. Check my profile @TransFaye24 for pics and prepare to be stunned!  I'm kink ...

Jasmin T-girl Ready to make friends Want to Meet a T-Girl in Iowa? Hey, I am Jasmin, 8" with a great body and busty. I love tatts and I'm 420 friendly, down to party! Lets swap some pics and then meet up for hot dates and see where it goes!  Hit me up @SweetJasminT...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Rollin Fetish I'm Rollin, a submissive male from Ames, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and force me into submission. I crave being dominated and taught how to properly please a Mistress. My submissive kinks include whippings, roleplay, and spankings. I also have a des...

Unleash Your Desires with Stormy from Dubuque Hello there! I'm Stormy, a female swinger from Dubuque, Iowa. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned pro, we're always up for some naughty fun. You can find us in the swingers dating...

Explore Your Desires with Arline from Ames! Hey there! Are you ready to dive into a world of excitement and explore your deepest desires? Well, look no further because I'm here to guide you on this thrilling journey. My name is Arline, and I'm a friendly and open-minded woman from Ames, Iowa. Now, let me tell you a little secret - I have a...

Kinky Domina Gray Seeks Submissive for BDSM Fun in Sioux City Hello there, I am Gray, a strict and experienced Dominatrix from Sioux City, Iowa. Are you ready to explore your deepest desires and submit to my every command? As a Mistress, I enjoy a wide range of kinks including whippings, roleplay, and forced crossdressing. But I am always open to exploring n...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun I'm Arel, a submissive male from Des Moines, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress to take control and show me the ways of submission. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username areldes21101. I crave the thrill of being dominated and humiliated by a powerful woman who kn...

Unleash Your Wildest Desires with Willow Hey there! I'm Willow from Quad Cities, IA/IL, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. I love exploring the world of Femdom and taking control in the bedroom. There's something so empowering about being in charge and watching my submissive partner surrender to me. I'm a friendly and ...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Vivianna Hey there! I'm Vivianna from Iowa City, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love. It's all about exploring different kinks and fetishes, and I'm always open to trying new things. I find it thrilling to push boundaries and discover new sensations. I am friendly, open-minded, and always up...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Fun My name is Kincaid and I am a submissive male from Iowa City, Iowa. I am seeking a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found in the FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username kincaidiow79939. I enjoy exploring...

Tempting Temptress Seeking Submissive Souls Hey there, I'm Sarajane from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, and I have a unique fetish that sets my heart racing. I absolutely adore the feeling of silk against my skin - it's like a sensual caress that sends shivers down my spine. I'm a friendly and open-minded individual who loves to explore diff...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Adventures I'm Leigh, a submissive male from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and show me the ways of proper submission. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username leighwate37019. I have always been drawn to the world of BDS...