Iowa Alternative Sex Ads - BDSM, Trans & Swingers

Browse Iowa alternative sex ads to meet kinky locals looking for BDSM, domination & fetish, transgender sex, or swingers & threesomes hookups near you. It's free to search these alternative classifieds, or post your own ad!

Home / Alternative Sex Ads /

Show Ads In: Ames | Des Moines | Dubuque | Cedar Rapids | Iowa City | Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA | Quad Cities, IA/IL | Sioux City | Waterloo / Cedar Falls

October 29th, 2025

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun
I'm Lucas, a submissive male from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress to take control and show me the ways of proper submission. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username lucaso79419. I crave being dominated and humiliated by a powerful woman who ...

Discover the Allure of Lynette's Unique Fetish Hey there! I'm Lynette from Iowa City, Iowa and I have a special fetish that sets me apart. I absolutely love the feeling of silk against my skin - it's like a luxurious treat for my senses. The way it glides and shimmers just drives me wild! I'm a friendly and open-minded person who loves to ex...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Karmen Hey there! I'm Karmen from Quad Cities, IA/IL, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. I love the feeling of silk against my skin, it's like a sensual caress that sends shivers down my spine. I'm friendly, open-minded, and always eager to explore new kinks and fetishes. I've recently ...

Embrace Your True Self with Maure from Ames! Hey there! I'm Maure, a fun-loving transgender individual from Ames, Iowa. I may not fit society's norms, but that's what makes me special. I embrace my true self and love being a part of the LGBTQ community. I enjoy exploring new places in town like Cafe Beaudelaire or The Mucky Duck Pub for a c...

Explore Kinks and Fetishes with Drea in Quad Cities Hey there, I'm Drea from Quad Cities, IA/IL. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, we're always up for trying something new and exciting. You can find us in the swingers dat...

A Sensual Journey: Seeking Connection Hey there! I'm Mollee, a transgender woman from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, Iowa. I may not fit society's idea of "normal," but that's what makes me unique and special. I love embracing my true self and being part of the LGBTQ community. It's a journey of self-discovery and empowerment that I woul...

Explore Kinks and Fetishes with Matti from Cedar Rapids Hey there! My name is Matti and I am a female swinger from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. My husband and I are friendly, open-minded, and always up for exploring new kinks and fetishes. We love meeting like-minded individuals who share our passion for a little extra excitement in the bedroom. You can find us...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Ruthe from Iowa City! Hey there! My name is Ruthe and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love. I am intrigued by Femdom and the power dynamics it involves. Being in control and dominating a submissive male really gets me going. It's such a thrilling experience for me. I'm a friendly and open-minded person who lo...

Sweet and Sassy Transgender Lady Seeking Love 💕 Hey there! I'm Loree, a fun-loving transgender woman who's ready to dive into the dating scene. If you're looking for someone unique, open-minded, and full of life, then you've come to the right place! Physically, I have a curvaceous body that will make your heart skip a beat. My luscious dark ha...

Looking for Love and Adventure! Hey there! My name is Donny, and I'm a fun-loving transgender person from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, Iowa. I'm excited to put myself out there and see what the dating world has in store for me. So, let me tell you a bit about myself! Physically, I have this unique body type that's curvy in all t...

Kinky Fetish Fun with Sonia in Ames, Iowa My name is Sonia and I am a kinky fetish lover from Ames, Iowa. I have always been drawn to exploring the wilder side of pleasure and pushing boundaries. I enjoy a wide range of fetishes including BDSM, domination, submission, roleplay, spankings, and more. I love the thrill of power dynamics an...

Passionate Swingers Seeking Playmates in Dubuque Hello there, I'm Arlette from Dubuque, Iowa. My husband and I are a fun-loving couple who enjoy exploring our kinkier side in the swinging lifestyle. We are open-minded, adventurous, and always up for some adult fun. You can find us on FreeSexAds.com Swingers Lifestyle Profiles under the usernam...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Maxi Hey there! I'm Maxi from Des Moines, Iowa, and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. I love the feeling of silk against my skin - it's like a luxurious caress that sends shivers down my spine. I'm a friendly and open-minded individual who loves to explore different kinks and fetishes. ...

Unleash Your Wildest Desires with Dollie from Ames, Iowa! Hey there, naughty adventurers! My name is Dollie, and I'm here to invite you into a world of pleasure and exploration. With my husband by my side, we're ready to take you on an unforgettable journey through the realm of kinks and fetishes. We're not your average couple. We're friendly, open-mind...

Femdom Mistress Alysia - Explore Your Deepest Desires Are you ready to submit to a powerful and seductive Dominatrix in Iowa City, Iowa? Look no further, for I am Mistress Alysia, your ultimate Femdom Queen. I will take control of your mind, body, and soul, guiding you through a world of pleasure and pain like you've never experienced before. As a ...

Explore Your Desires with Cecile from Ames, Iowa Hey there! My name is Cecile, and I'm here to tell you about my unique fetish. Now, I won't spill the beans on what I look like just yet, but trust me when I say that you won't be disappointed. 😉 I have a passion for exploring different kinks and fetishes. It's like a thrilling adventure for m...

Looking for Love and Adventure in Cedar Rapids Hey there! My name is Bella, and I'm a fun-loving transgender woman living in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. 💃🏼 So, let me tell you a bit about myself. I have an infectious smile that can brighten up any room, and my curvaceous body will make your heart skip a beat. 🌟 Being of mixed heritage, my ex...

Tempting Transgender in Iowa Seeks Connection Hey there! I'm Carolin, a fun-loving transgender woman from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa. I may not fit society's standards of beauty, but I am confident in my own skin and proud to be part of the LGBTQ community. 🏳️‍🌈 I enjoy exploring local cafes like Cup of Joe or Sidecar Coffee for ...

Passion Seekers in the Swinging Lifestyle Hey there, I'm Jenn from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA, Iowa. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly swingers looking to spice things up in the bedroom. We love exploring new fantasies and pushing boundaries to new heights of pleasure. You can find us on FreeSexAds.com Swing...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Gwen! Hey there, I'm Gwen from Ames, Iowa. I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore - tickling! There's something about the sensation of being tickled that drives me wild. It's playful, fun, and oh so exciting! I'm a friendly and open-minded person who loves to explore different kinks and fetishe...

Euphoria Awaits: Transgender Beauty Seeking Connection Hey there, I'm Melina from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa. I'm a proud transgender woman who loves embracing my true self and connecting with others in the LGBTQ community. Whether we grab a coffee at Cup of Joe or take a stroll along the Cedar Valley Nature Trail, I'm all about creating meaningful co...

Unleash Your Wildest Desires with Bekki from Sioux City Hey there, I'm Bekki, a female swinger from Sioux City, Iowa. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. Whether you're into role-playing, BDSM, or something else entirely, we're always up for trying new things. You can find us in t...

Looking for Love and Adventure! Hey there, lovely people of Des Moines! My name is Riane, and I'm a fun-loving transgender individual ready to take on the world. 💃🌈 So, let me tell you a bit about myself. I have a curvy body that embraces my femininity, and my warm smile will instantly make your day brighter. As for my et...

Passionate Swingers Seeking Playmates in Cedar Rapids Hello there, I'm Sue from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly swingers looking to spice things up in the bedroom. We love exploring new experiences and pushing our boundaries to new heights of pleasure. You can find us on FreeSexAds.com Swingers Life...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Fun I never knew how much pleasure could come from submitting to a powerful Dominant Female Mistress until I met Her. My name is Torre, and I am a submissive male from Quad Cities, IA/IL. I am on the hunt for a strong-willed Dominatrix who can force me into submission and teach me how to properly plea...

Kinky Fetish Fun in Waterloo/Cedar Falls, Iowa I'm Lanie, and I'm a kinky little minx looking for someone to explore all my wildest fantasies with. I love everything from light bondage to hardcore domination - the kinkier, the better! Spankings? Yes, please! Roleplay? Let's make our own naughty story together. Age play? I'll be your little gi...

Unleash Your Desires with Rhonda from Des Moines! Are you ready to embark on a thrilling journey of pleasure and exploration? Look no further, for I am Rhonda, a vivacious female swinger hailing from the heartland of Des Moines, Iowa. Together with my loving husband, we are here to create unforgettable experiences that will leave you breathless. ...

Explore Your Desires with Davin from Cedar Rapids! Hey there, ladies! My name is Davin, and I'm here to share something special about myself. You see, I have this unique fetish that really gets me going. It's like a secret treasure chest of pleasure waiting to be unlocked! I won't go into too much detail about my fetish right now, but let me tell...

TS M2F Top in Iowa TS Top Seeking Man in Iowa I'm Sandi wants to meet hot guy for fun and hot sex. Age 28 with long blonde hair, smooth skin and a great body.  Non op functional, nice big ladystick for your pleasure! 😈  Love oral sex, anal sex and yummy kinks of all sorts. I love to explore kinks and fan...

Kinky Dominatrix Elsey from Iowa City Seeks Submissive Male for BDSM Fun Hello there, I am Elsey, a strict and commanding Domina from Iowa City who is on the hunt for a submissive male to explore all of our deepest desires together. Are you ready to submit to my every whim and command? Do you crave the feeling of being dominated and controlled by a powerful woman like ...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun My name is Derrick and I am a submissive male from Iowa City, Iowa. I am on the hunt for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix who can force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and fetishes, including roleplay, spankings, ag...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Fun I'm Sheldon, a submissive male from Iowa City, Iowa looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and force me into submission. I crave being dominated and taught how to properly please a Mistress. Some of my favorite submissive kinks include roleplay, spankings, and age p...

Passionate Swingers Seeking Playmates in Ames Hello there, I'm Bethanne from Ames, Iowa. My husband and I are a fun-loving, open-minded couple who enjoy exploring our kinks and fantasies with like-minded individuals. We are active members of the swinging lifestyle community and always looking to connect with new playmates who share our passio...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Fun I'm Jeffery, a submissive male from Iowa City, Iowa, looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to take control and force me into submission. I crave being dominated and taught how to properly please a Mistress. You can find me on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username jeffery89850....

Kinky Fetish Fun with Coreen! Are you looking for a wild and adventurous time exploring all your deepest desires? Well, look no further because I'm Coreen, and I'm here to make all your kinky dreams come true! From BDSM to roleplay, I love it all and can't wait to dive into some new experiences with you. I have a passion for...

Elegant Trans Beauty Seeking Connection Hey there! I'm Simonne, a transgender woman from Omaha / Council Bluffs, IA. I may have a curvy body and come from a diverse background, but what truly defines me is my love for being part of the LGBTQ community. 🏳️‍🌈 I enjoy exploring local spots like The Old Market or taking a stroll ...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Velvet in Sioux City Hey there, I'm Velvet from Sioux City, Iowa. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We believe in living life to the fullest and indulging in our deepest desires. You can find us on swingers dating profiles under the member name...

Discover Elias: A Submissive Seeking a Dominant Woman Hey there, I'm Elias from Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore - I love being tickled! The feeling of vulnerability and surrender to someone else's touch just drives me wild. I'm a submissive guy who would love to spend time with a Dominant woman who can fulfill my de...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun My name is Denis and I am a submissive male from Ames, Iowa. I am seeking a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username denis51661. I have always been drawn to the w...

Alys: Seeking a Connection Beyond Labels Hey there! I'm Alys, a transgender woman living in Des Moines, Iowa. I love exploring the local art scene, grabbing a cup of coffee at Java Joe's, and taking walks along the riverwalk downtown. 🎨☕️🚶‍♀️ I'm looking for someone who sees beyond gender and embraces all aspects of me. ...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Roleplay and Humiliation My name is Josiah, and I am a submissive male from Waterloo / Cedar Falls, Iowa. I am seeking a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username josiahwate55846. I enjoy ...

Explore Your Wildest Desires with Trudy: A Sensual Journey into the World of Femdom Hey there, fellow kinksters of Des Moines! My name is Trudy, and I've got a little secret I'd love to share with you. Are you ready to embark on a thrilling adventure into the realm of fetishism? Well, buckle up because I'm about to introduce you to my unique world. Now, let me tell you a bit abo...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun Hey there, my name is Gino and I'm a submissive male from Sioux City, Iowa looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I can be found in the FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username ginos12191. I have always had a...

Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky Adventures I'm Warner, a submissive male from Sioux City, Iowa, and I'm on the hunt for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix who can force me into submission and teach me how to properly please a Mistress. I can be found on FreeSexAds.com Alt profiles under username warnersiou39877. I have always had a ...

Explore Your Deepest Desires with Norina in Dubuque! Hey there, I'm Norina from Dubuque, Iowa! I have a unique fetish that I absolutely love - I am obsessed with wearing latex outfits. The feeling of the tight material against my skin just drives me wild! I'm a friendly and open-minded person who loves to explore different kinks and fetishes. One ...

Join Auguste from Iowa City for a Swinging Adventure Hello there! My name is Auguste and I am a female swinger from Iowa City, Iowa. My husband and I are friendly, open-minded, and love to explore all sorts of kinks and fetishes. We enjoy meeting new people who share our interests and are always up for a good time. You can find us in the swingers d...

Kinky Desires Seeking Exploration I'm Anne from Des Moines, Iowa, and I have some wild kinks that I'm dying to explore. I love the feeling of being dominated, whether it's through whippings or roleplay scenarios. The thrill of submission gets me going like nothing else. Spankings? Yes, please! I also have a fascination with age p...

Looking for Love and Laughter in Ames, Iowa! 🌈 Hey there, amazing people of Ames! My name is Hali, and I'm a proud transgender individual who loves embracing my unique journey. I wanted to reach out to this incredible community because I believe that love knows no boundaries, and everyone deserves a chance at finding their perfect match. Bein...

Passion Seekers in Des Moines, Iowa Hello there, I'm Sella, a spicy little minx from Des Moines looking to add some extra sizzle to my already hot life. My husband and I are fun-loving, open-minded, and kink friendly. We love exploring new experiences and pushing our boundaries in the world of swinging. You can find us on FreeSexAd...

Hot Shemale in Sioux City Looking for a Wild Time Hey guys, I'm Madelaine and I'm a sexy shemale looking for a local man to have some steamy fun with. I love getting down and dirty, so if you're into that too, we'll definitely hit it off! I'm a versatile shemale who enjoys being both top and bottom. I love giving and receiving blowjobs, getting my ...